Swingles

I had heard about them, but I was more skeptical than anything else. I am talking about vibrators. I know quite a few other girls who have used them and they said I should experience it too, but then… I could never muster the courage.

Things became a bit difficult when my boyfriend of seven years got a posting in the Middle East. It was a teary goodbye and all but the real pangs started in the nights that followed when I really began to miss him.

It became worse with each passing day. We were so used to each other that this separation proved to be too much. The depression spilled out on my work life and I was not doing things the way I was expected to do.

I was only this close to getting fired from my third job when one of my friends suggested that I should see a doctor about my problem.

I was quite apprehensive about a doctor understanding what I was going through but my friend’s insistence paid off and I sought an appointment with the doc. And what the doctor said probably changed my whole life.

The doctor prescribed something I never expected she would. She told me I was missing the physical contact of my boyfriend more than anything else. She told me that I had become used to sex and since I was missing it now, it was creating problems in other areas of my life as well. That was when she told me to use a vibrator!

I was shocked initially, but the doctor explained that vibrators and other adult toys are prescribed by doctors frequently. They keep people off from unhealthy sexual habits and also save them from going through mental turmoil as was happening with me. She even recommended an online store from where I could get the device discreetly.

It felt strange at first, but now after 4 weeks of using the vibrator, I actually feel nice. My boyfriend is still very much my first love, but my vibrator has made my lonely nights easier. I am pulling myself through and, as the doctor said, maybe I am keeping myself safer also so why not see your doctor and see what he things of sex toys.