Here’s 72 Ways to Spice it Up
Written by robbie on May 27, 2010 – 9:50 pmBid adieu to humdrum monotonous sex with this fantastic guide that tells you exactly what you should get. These are 72 tips that will definitely unleash the carnal animal in both you and your partner!
The Bare Necessities
1. Make sure you get colors right. Colors can set the mood for a great sexual experience. Red is a wonderful color of passion. Set the mood with this color.
2. Ask your partner to tease you around your vagina, and to only penetrate slightly.As most women know, to be teased is just as important as being pleased.
3. Introduce new ideas to your lady, such as having sex in places other than the bedroom. The shower is always a good place to start, then as you both get more adventurous, maybe outdoors?
4. Have you ever contemplated sex in the bathtub? The bathtub has an erotica of its own and that is the reason so many movies have bathtub scenes and some of them even have bathtub sex scenes! Well, don’t shoot this idea unless you have tried it!
5. Make oral sex a part of the routine. This is a really great way to arouse your man and then get the favor reciprocated in kind. Some vibrating machines can add to the excitement of oral sex. These machines can be connected to the tongue and lead to some very exciting sensations.
6. The whole process of sex doesn’t have to be just about the intercourse. It can also be a lot of fun and you can learn a lot more about your partner if you involve things like games. There are a lot of great adult board games out there, or just a fun little game of strip poker would do.
7. Women are perennially complaining about not coming to their orgasms. Well, there are things that could help. One of the ways you could do this is to place a pillow below the butt which raises the vaginal area to an optimal position. This is a great position for getting the most optimum contact of the penis with the clitoris, always helping in reaching earth-shattering orgasms.
8. A very interesting way to have sex would be if the man sits on top of a washing machine. Seriously! A washing machine can give some great vibrations that add to the thrust factor. The woman should then clamber over the man and allow the man to penetrate her while he is still on the machine.
9. Just remember to make sure the machine is on a long wash cycle. Nothing breaks the mood easier than being done too soon.
10. If you like using sex toys such as vibrators, butt plugs or butt beads, don’t be afraid to let your partner know. If these things excite you then they are likely to excite your partner as well. The more aroused you both are, the more intense the experience will be.
11. Never forget to communicate with your partner. You will never be left satisfied if you don’t let him know exactly what you want and where you want it. You must also ask him what he wants and how he wants it. He may ask you to do things that make you uncomfortable but you could always try it out.
12. Get to know your man’s penis by masturbating him. Ask him what he likes or get him to show you how he masturbates himself. Men are just as different as women as how they please themselves. Once you have learned what he likes, you can then introduce other things like cock-rings.
13. Learn all the scents of your partners body. Slowly travel over her body inhaling the scent as you go, this will have an unbelievable effect on her. She will feel your breath on her body as you journey along her body.
14. Believe it or not, what you eat can have an effect on how your sperm tastes, if you want your woman to enjoy oral sex then you need to make sure you taste good. Try eating things with lemon, cardamon, peppermint or cinnamon in.
15. Make sure neither yourself or your partner eat strong smelling foods like onions or garlic otherwise your may find yourself or him put off by the odour.
16. Your man’s diet is very important when it comes to the taste of his sperm, onions, garlic, asparagus, curry and chilli can all have a negative effect to the taste of his sperm.
17. Sex outdoors is always a thrilling experience. Be mindful of the laws though as this act is always frowned upon, which makes it even more exciting. If you are driving home late at night and there is no-one around, how about pulling over the car and having a quickie?
18. If your man is too busy to have sex with you, you can effectively seduce him this way. When he is sitting on his chair, working, get below the table and start licking his cock through his pants. No man can resist that!
The Right Sex Position Means a Lot
19. The missionary position is the most used one for a reason, it is comfortable for both parties and enables a man to penetrate deeply.
20. Another reason the missionary position is good is that it enables you to see your partners facial expressions, you will know just how much she is enjoying herself.
21. Body to body contact is always highly erotic, try giving your man a body slide. Cover your front with oil or talc and slide up and down his body.
22. Ride your man like a cowgirl. It is a great way to vary your sexual routine and a great way to arouse your man if he feels he is sapped out.
23. If you like anal sex or just want to do something a little different, try doggy style. A man get a much different sensation on his penis in this position.
24. The spoon position is something that usually happens in the afterglow of sex. But why not try it as a sexual position instead? Enter your partner from behind, either anally or vaginally.
25. The spoons position can also be used for mutual masturbation. Placing your penis between her thighs and rubbing back and forth is sure to excite you both, you will be rubbing against her clitoris as you do this.
Table Manners - Sex!
26. Food items can make unbelievable additions to sex. Ice cubes to tighten nipples, chocolate sauce for licking off bodies, honey for that sweet sticky sex. If it is in your fridge or pantry, you can probably use it during sex.
27. Fruit and vegetables can also be a lot of fun. If you are both game for it, things like carrots or bananas can be inserted into various orifices.
28. A kinky little game you can play is bedroom bingo. Paint squares on her body using body chocolate or body paints. Number the squares then fill each one with a different type of food. Get her to call out the square number and then you have to eat what is on there.
29. One of the most phallic looking vegetables has to be the cucumber and if you have an extremely cold cucumber, the effects on both you and your partner are unimaginable.
30. Sweet tasting alcohol should also be used as a sweet treat. Try pouring a little bubbly champagne on your man and then licking it off.
31. Instead of the old usual sliding ice cubes up and down each others body, why not use frozen fruit instead? This will leave a sweet sticky trail for your tongue to follow.
32. Have you heard of the sex and chocolate catchline? There’s really something to it. Chocolate has a range of chemicals that can set your hormones racing in the right direction. And better still is cheese. Sit and eat chocolate and cheese together in your prelude to sex and you will see some great things happening. Just remember to use dark chocolate.
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33. Want some early morning sex with your man? The best way to seduce him with the right breakfast is to give him cereal with almonds and lots of apple added to it. Try it; it always works.
34. A great mood food to try is avocado.
35. As mentioned before, champagne can be a great sex aid, but it is also good to drink. It makes your tongue tingle and therefore makes it more sensitive when kissing. Try holding a small amount in your mouth and then swallow it just before kissing your man.
36. Always keep some good mints ready. This is handy advice because you don’t know when you will be kissing someone and that could lead to a great experience to remember for a long time.
Unleash the Passion
37. When it comes to having your woman masturbate you, make sure you tell her exactly what you want as most women think they will hurt their man if they grasp too tight, so if you like it hard and tight let her know.
38. If you want your woman to deep throat you during oral sex, you must take it slow and steady to begin with otherwise all you will end up with is vomit on the end of your penis. The best position for you both to be in is you standing and her on her knees in front of you.
39. Most women aren’t expert at deep throating. They find it painful and uncomfortable. If you feel that way too, then you can at least get the head of his cock to rub against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate. Keep a very firm grip on the portion of his penis shaft that is outside your mouth.
40. You might have heard a lot about licking his cock as though it is candy or something but that’s not always the most ideal way to do it. He would like a little rough touch. You could give him some great rubbing with your lips and even use your teeth very, very gently occasionally. He would like that.
41. If your woman is boring at oral sex and just sucks up and down on your penis, try giving her some lube to rub on your penis so she can slide her hand up and down as she sucks away.
42. Music is a must during sex. It helps to relax you and your partner and also helps you to focus on the task at hand.
43. Don’t be fooled by stories that men don’t like their anuses explored. Most of them do. But you almost always have to be the one initiate it. The best time to do it is when you are giving them oral sex. Slowly slide your smallest finger in his anus and gradually work it inside. Lubricate your finger to do this easily. When it is inside, start wiggling your finger. He will most likely find it highly pleasurable because you are directly targeting his prostate which is highly sensitive.
44. Viewing pornography together before sex can be very arousing. See if you can both sit through a whole movie watching other people fuck without jumping each other.
Carnal Pleasures and Animal Positions
45. Have you heard how gorillas do it? These huge animals actually spend very little time in the actual sexual penetration part of it. But they do have a very long foreplay in which they groom each other. You can do this ritual as well.Have a bath together, get each other all soapy and slippery and so on.
46. One animal that can teach us all a lesson or two is the seal. Seals have been known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they will actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great sex precursor, because it stimulates blood into the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.
47. And you could always take about the giant water bug, the male of who can go on with a sexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused and he will want to go on longer.
Get deep into Your Man’s Mind
48. . When you are using the woman on top position, do a little extra maneuver. Instead of just going up and down as most women do, try going diagonally and sideways as well. This will be really great for your man and you will feel him more inside you. Try it!
49. Use a quick drying alcohol such as vodka . When you are in the mood for sex, take a drink of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Allow the vodka to dry. You can assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He will enjoy this to no end.
50. If you are too shy to touch your man, go stand behind him, your nipples touching his back. Then bring your hands to his front and touch his cock and nipples and slightly masturbate him. Then gradually increase the force. He will enjoy that immensely.
51. A classical position is the girl wrap position and it is always a hit. You have to be quite athletic for it but it sure is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.
52. Try keeping your shirt on! Literally! Some guys love the suspense of it all. They don’t want to see their women all naked all too soon. Give them a striptease and see how far it goes. You could also dress up specially for giving him a striptease. How about some leather boots? Ah, we are going into KinkyVille now!
53. Another great—sorry, very great—thing for men is to give them a nice little licking when they are still limp. Just go under and give them some great swirls of the tongue and see how they harden up. This will be a great prelude to a great sexual episode. Plus, it also gives you the great confidence that you can make your man hard with just a few simple maneuvers.
54. A great suggestion is to introduce your lady to some vaginal exercises known as kegel. These exercises tighten the vaginal and pelvic floor muscles and increases sensitivity in the vaginal region.
55. Ben-Wa balls are not mere sex toys. If used regularly, your lady can actually make her vagina much harder, tighter and sexier.
56. When you are performing about oral sex, don’t just go about pleasing your man with your mouth. The peripheral things that you do are important. You should use your hands often as well. Use them to stimulate his nipples and his anus and his prostate while you are sucking him. No man will resist that.
57. Masturbation and oral sex are extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when your partner is pregnant or going through her periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner with such techniques.
58. It really is a myth that women can orgasm only when they are penetrated. Penetration is actually not important . A man can easily stimulate her G spot or clitoris and bring her to climax. Try educating yourself on how to do this.
59. Underwear can be used for more than one reason. Try tying her panties or stocking around the base of your penis like a cock ring. Get your lady to tighten it more and more as she performs oral sex on you.
60. Kinky is great for most people. Try it out. Tie up your man, and lick him all over. If he doesn’t like being done that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.
61. When your man is performing cunnilingus on their you, make sure he knows the correct way to do it.The right movement is to swirl the tongue inside the vagina and then lick upwards. This really stimulates the clitoris.
62. Try making love in front of a mirror, the heightened sensation of watching yourself and your partner in the act is mind blowing.
63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on camera as well. The very idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.
64. Try the sideways position when your partner is performing oral sex on you. Lie on your side with one leg on the bed and the other leg in the air.
65. Try massaging each other and then hug each other very closely. The oil can produce a truly magnificent sensation.
66. Use your hands to great effect. When probing her vagina, make a come-here signal. This stimulates her highly sensitive upper vaginal wall and clitoris.
67. Why not have naked night? As soon as you both get home, go about your normal routing fully naked. See how long you can keep your hands of each other for
68. You could have some great excitement if you choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Go shopping and buy some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in ever. Then set up some candles and either cook or order some great dinner. When he comes over, give him a surprise. It would set the right mood for a night full of fun.
69. Masturbation is quite important. You need to masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything else that is to follow.
70. Use every sense that you have been given to enjoy your partner, the sense of sight, the sense of smell, the sense of taste and the sense of touch.
71. Try some Brazilian wax on yourself. It makes you very smooth and that’s something every man enjoys.
72. Close body contact with each other is going to lead to the most erotic experiences. Learn every little thing you man likes and needs and teach him the same thing about you. Explore each other with passion.
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