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How to Overcome Insecurity with your lady.

It never ceases to amaze me how insecure a woman is about her body. She can have the best set of breasts on the face of the earth and she will still be concerned if her ankles are fat. This has always pissed me off. I guess because I don’t understand it. I don’t understand how a woman can be so obsessive about her body. The funny part is, I don’t think most men care. I don’t think most men care if there is stretch marks on her stomach. Most men won’t even look, but women are obsessed. You need to understand this about your woman and try to help her. It will eat her alive if you tell her that her that her nose makes her look like Porky the Pig. If you love your woman, then you want to have the most stable relationship possible. If it is unstable, chances are you won’t be getting laid.

Do you want to make her feel better about her ass. Most women are insecure about their asses this is not a Bedroom Secrets. You would think by how insecure they are by it, that the sun rises and sets on it. I’ve never understood this, but like most things with women I have come to terms with it. There are ways that you can help to make her feel better

Have her lay on her stomach. Start off by massaging her shoulders and back. Go down and massage her ass. While you are doing it, tell her how nice it is. Tell her how aroused it makes you to touch her ass. Usually during this, I will try to insert a few fingers into her vagina. If she says anything, tell her that you got too horny touching her ass.

Lying sometimes to your lady about her cellulite by acting as if you’ve never noticed any, can sometimes help. Just don’t act too stupid, as she will know you are lying. It is the stuff on her body that looks like cottage cheese. If she i! s uncomfortable about this, tell her how much you like to kiss her thighs before you have oral sex.

If your woman has a spare tire around her stomach, don’t make her fret over it. Tell her to look at it until she feels comfortable with it. If this don’t work, have her lie down and kiss her stomach. Tell her how much it makes you horny when you kiss her down there. She will eat this up.

Alot of women will turn out the lights before coming to bed as they are so insecure about their body’s and this is to prevent you from seeing them.Tell her that you want to watch her beautiful body as she has an orgasm. Try to emphasize that you want to see her beautiful body.

No person is perfect. We would all wish that our women were perfect little love machines, but they aren’t. Even the women on television aren’t perfect. This is probably why you don’t see most of them totally nude. Underneath it all, there is a imperfection some where.

You need to let your woman know that even though she isn’t perfect, no person is. Tell her about what you feel your imperfections are. Point them out to her, go in detail if you have to.

Putting on too big a act, becoming manic and crying and acting depressed will give you away, you need to use common sense, She will see this coming a mile away. Instead, be honest and open about it. Tell her that one leg is bigger than the other or whatever your problem is.

Nice boobs, Bad ass,it doesn’t matter you need to listen to her to find out what faults she thinks she has.It is important that you understand how your woman views herself. Tell her what you feel are her strong points. Does she have nice breasts? Does she have nice legs? Tell her about it!

Do you want earth shattering orgasms that send you to orbit and back?The best sex occurs when two people feel comfortable with themselves. If she feels comfortable around you, she will be more active in bed. That is your incentive to help her become comfortable with herself.

A women cant perform well when she has these insecurities about herself. It would be like being a painter that needed a straight line in his work but was too uptight to perform it.I think of the issue about making your lover comfortable like this. She can’t perform if she doesn’t feel comfortable naked around you.

If she doesn’t feel comfortable after all that you have told her and done with her. I would suggest that you try breathing excesses. You can easily find directions for these on the net. These are a great way to relax and relieve stress as well. Both of you should do this together.

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